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I just learned that Dov Lautman passed away this weekend.  Dov was one of the foremost Israeli business leaders.  More important, Dov was one of the biggest supporters of Arab-Israeli economic cooperation and of resolving the political conflict between Israel and all of its neighbors.  Dov was a true pioneer in this space – I learned a lot from him and am so grateful to him for all he taught me and all the doors he opened for me. I am also grateful for Dov’s encouragement and support at every step of the way.  Dov’s apparel company – Delta Galil – was a global player.  And Dov used much of his market power to foster joint ventures with Egyptian, Jordanian, Turkish and Palestinian companies.  Internally, he also worked hard to promote Arab citizens of Israel and to build a multicultural environment that celebrated differences and respected all equally.

More important than all of Dov’s business gifts and socio-political leadership, Dov was a real mentsch. He was kind to all. He was positive, reflective, resourceful, hard-working, and had no ego and no bad bone.  He was just such a sweet, wonderful human being.  Even as he faced a debilitating illness in his last decade, he carried himself with dignity and provided leadership and inspiration till the last day.

I will deeply miss him.

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Words Kill, By Mirit Daron

Published under Introspection Oct 31, 2013

This open letter was published on 10/29 in Yedioth Ahronot. The below is the translation from Hebrew.

Words Kill
By Mirit Danon, secretary to prime ministers Yitzhak Shamir, Yitzhak Rabin, Shimon Peres, Ehud Barak, and Ariel Sharon

Dear Minister Naftali Bennett,

I want to tell you a few personal words. Words written from my heart.

Let me introduce myself briefly: I was the personal secretary of five prime ministers. Almost half of the prime ministers in Israel since its establishment. For many years, I sat next door to the prime minister, and I saw a lot. Mostly, I heard.

In the months that preceded November 4, 1995, my ears heard the curses and the incitement on the telephone. Words like “traitor” and “SOB” which were directed at the man who was democratically elected to his term as prime minister. I was the one who received the envelopes filled with hateful materials intended for Yitzhak Rabin, sometimes with excrement and dirt.

And ten years later, in the months that preceded disengagement, I was also the person who sat in the same chair in the Prime Minister’s Bureau, next to the same desk and the same door, which led to the room of prime minister Ariel Sharon. And again I heard threats and saw hate mail, and I felt then, as I unfortunately do today, that I was at a rerun of the same movie.

In this context, I want to tell you, Honorable Minister Bennett: never forget that words have a power of their own. They aren’t just combinations of letters written down or enunciated. Sometimes they even kill. Words are always the start of a process. After them comes spitting, and after that…I don’t want to think about that.

Don’t forget that it all began with words back then, too. At first it was “din rodef,” [the law of the “persecutor,” according to which one who is persecuting a Jew with murderous intent may be killed extrajudicially—INT] and afterwards came the [picture of Rabin in] SS uniform , the coffin—and finally the three shots in the back of Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin.

Once we could say: we didn’t know. We didn’t understand that things were liable to spin out of control; that one Yigal Amir would do something and leave a bleeding scar on all of us and all of Israeli society for almost two decades. It’s important that you know that there are no second chances. You cannot claim again: I didn’t know. Once was too much for all of us.

And I also want to tell you about a former employee in prime minister Sharon’s bureau, not particularly high-ranking, an upright man with a conscience. When the disengagement process got underway, with which he didn’t agree, he announced his resignation. He had a family, little children, and he certainly needed his salary, but his conscience was stronger. Although he wasn’t an elected official, he was not a minister in the Israeli cabinet, he was braver than you. If you do not agree with releasing terrorists as part of resuming the talks with the Palestinians—get up and resign. You consider yourself a brave man, a former combat soldier in an elite unit, a man with values and a conscience—then have courage and leave the government. Fight for what you believe in through democratic ways. Incitement is not one of them.

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Gershon Baskin share’s an honest note with Palestinian readers.

He proposes: “The Palestinian leaders, with the support of the people, should state the following: When Israel is prepared to recognize the rights of the Palestinian people for a nation-state of their own, based on the June 1967 borders with agreed-to minimal territorial swaps, with the Palestinian capital in Jerusalem and an agreed-solution to the refugee issue (as stated in the Arab Peace Initiative) and with adequate guarantees for the individual and collective rights of the Palestinian minority in Israel, then we, the Palestinian leadership and people will be prepared to recognize Israel as the nation state of the Jewish people.”

Read his full piece after the jump.

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I read about efforts by the Reform and Conservative movements of Judaism to revise the way Bar Mitzvahs are being conducted and to explore how the rite of passage can deepen the bond with the B’nei Mitzvah and their families. It is the type of refreshing idea that is so obviously on target that in retrospect makes you wonder why nobody had led such a charge before. 

Rethinking how we train for and conduct Bar Mitzvahs is urgently needed. Not only should we do away with the Vegas-type excesses of some parties, but as the NYT article below shares, B’nei Mitzvah offer the opportunity for kids that are becoming men and women to learn their roles in making this a better world – a critical concept of Judaism, tikkun olam, and one that makes me most proud of my heritage and religion.

We should not stop at supporting social projects that kids can adopt that year. We should use the Bar Mitzvah training year to educate kids about how Judaism extols us to be mentshes (good human beings). Pirkei Avot – The Ethics of Our Fathers – is the type of jewel that I think is often skipped in favor of more traditional but less spiritual, inspirational and value-centric teaching in temple. It makes all the sense in the world to me that instead of rote repetition of words kids may not understand, we should invest in ethical guidance that will serve them for the rest of their lives, not to mention connect them to their faith with greater pride.

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Shana Tova

Published under Introspection, Religion Sep 08, 2013

A nice thought for the new year from Aish after the jump.

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I strongly recommend this one hour feature documentary that my uncle Jorge shared – about a violin, two violinists, and a continent in ashes. Heartbreaking and redemptive at the same time. So much inhumanity. And so much humanity to counteract it. So much darkness in our human race. And so much light to stand up to it. So hard to bear, so poignant to watch.

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This article by Marc Bitman provides interesting food for thought that breaks through the facile assumption that all industrial food production is necessarily evil. 

Machine-harvesting tomatoes at Rominger Brothers Farms in Winters, Calif.

 

 

 

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This is sweet story by Gabriel Garcia Marquez with a beautiful message. See the full story in its original Spanish as well as the English translation below.

Cuento corto de García Márquez

Un científico, que vivía preocupado con los problemas del mundo, estaba resuelto a encontrar los medios para aminorarlos.

Pasaba días en su laboratorio en busca de respuestas para sus dudas.

Cierto día, su hijo de 7 años invadió su santuario decidido a ayudarlo a trabajar.

El científico, nervioso por la interrupción, le pidió al niño que fuese a jugar a otro lado.

Viendo que era imposible sacarlo, el padre pensó en algo que pudiese darle con el objetivo de distraer su atención.

De repente se encontró con una revista, en donde había un mapa con el mundo, justo lo que precisaba.

Con unas tijeras recortó el mapa en varios pedazos y junto con un rollo de cinta se lo entregó a su hijo diciendo: “como te gustan los rompecabezas, te voy a dar el mundo todo roto para que  lo repares sin ayuda de nadie”.

Entonces calculó que al pequeño le llevaría 10 días componer el mapa, pero no fue así.

Pasadas algunas horas, escuchó la voz del niño que lo llamaba calmadamente.

“Papá, papá, ya hice todo, conseguí terminarlo”.

Al principio el padre no creyó en el niño!

Pensó que sería imposible que, a su edad hubiera conseguido recomponer un mapa que jamás había visto antes. Desconfiado, el científico levantó la vista de sus anotaciones con la certeza de que vería        el trabajo digno de un niño.

Para su sorpresa, el mapa estaba completo.

Todos los pedazos habían sido colocados en sus debidos lugares.

¿Cómo era posible? ¿Cómo el niño había sido capaz?

De esta manera, el padre preguntó con asombro a su hijo:

Hijito, tú no sabías cómo era el mundo, ¿cómo lo lograste?

Papá, respondió el niño; yo no sabía como era el mundo, pero cuando sacaste el mapa de la revista para recortarlo, vi que del otro lado estaba la figura de un hombre.

Así que di vuelta los recortes y comencé a recomponer al hombre, que sí sabía como era.

“Cuando conseguí arreglar al hombre, di vuelta a la hoja y vi que había arreglado al mundo”.

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Short story by Gabriel Garcia Marquez

A scientist that lived preoccupied by the world’s problems was resolute in finding the means to ameliorate them.

He would spend days in his laboratory searching answers for his doubts.

One day his 7 years old son invaded his sanctuary wanting to help him with his work.

The scientist, nervous by the interruption, asked the child to go play somewhere else.

Seeing that it was impossible to put him out, the father thought of something that would keep the child busy.

Suddenly, he found just what he needed. A magazine where a map of the world appeared.

With a pair of scissors he cut the map into pieces and together with a roll of tape gave it to his son telling him, “since you like puzzles, I am going to give you the world all cut up for you to repair without anyone’s help.”

He calculated that it would take the child 10 days to reconstruct the map, but it was not so.

After a few hours, he heard the child’s voice calling him quietly.

“Daddy, Daddy I finished.”

At first the father did not believe him

He thought that it would be impossible that at his age he was able to reconstruct a map he had never seen before. Ambivalent, the scientist raised his eyes from his notes with the certainty that he would see the work of a child only

To his surprise, the map was complete.

All the pieces had been put back in the right places.

How was that possible? How could a child do this?

The father dumbfounded asked his child, “my child you did not see what the map looked like. How did you do it?”

“Daddy,” the child answered,  ”I did not know how the world was , but when you took out the map from the magazine to cut it, I saw that on the reverse side was the figure of a man.

So I turned the pieces over and began to reconstruct the man that I did know how he was.

When I was able to reconstruct the man I turned the page over and saw that I had fixed the world.”

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I found this WSJ piece useful as Warren Buffett teaches by example that we should all incorporate a sense of doubt into our personal and professional lives, always asking ourselves how we can do better. 

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One of my team members shared this – and I curse and thank her for making me cry so much.  It is so important to remember every day how blessed we are and to cherish life – and live it to the fullest, with purpose and kindness.  If the previous line seems cheesy and hollow to you, watch this video and then read it again.

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