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Remembering Laura Ziskin

Published under Introspection Aug 04, 2011

I just learned today that Laura Ziskin passed away a few weeks ago. I was really saddened to learn that her fight with cancer came to an end this way.  Laura was among the warmest and most impressive people I have ever met.  She was always there for the OneVoice Movement, she was always there as a professional, she was always there as a truly warm human being.  On behalf of the OneVoice Movement, we will be planting a tree in her honor in Israel, and we will commemorate her during an official delegation of OneVoice leaders to the Mideast on the last week of October.

Here are a couple of links to obituaries – in The New York Times, in the Guardian, and in the LA Times – that share some of Laura’s professional accomplishments as producer of all the Spider-man movies and other blockbusters like Pretty Woman and the Oscar contender As Good as It Gets. 

But no words can in any way appropriately express the humanity and elegance that characterized everything Laura did.

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It is so perplexing that some people care only about power and zero about what positive things they could do with that power.

I am increasingly repulsed by the News Corp organization and think it represents everything that is wrong with our world.  It is less its FOX News channel ultra-conservatism than its sensationalist irresponsible news outlets; from the way they exploit people with all their tabloids and the whole ordeal of hacking phones of missing children (http://nyti.ms/ncfID8), to the way they libel people (like calling the woman who sued DSK a prostitute in the NY Post, who is now suing them, http://nyti.ms/rjJG9C) or, prior to turning tables, attacking all French people with embarrassing stereotypes when they were indicting Strauss-Kahn.

I am so perplexed and people that just seem to have no values or morals and accumulate wealth and power as if that is the end, rather than the means to a more productive end.

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With modern technology as it is, the unprecedented depth and constant recording of personal histories is going to transform the social fabric of humanity and even the way our brains and memories work.

Generations raised prior to the internet, social networks, the iPhone and its ilk did not remember much or most of their early lives, and only selectively their daily and lifetime experiences. Now everything is being recorded. So new generations, and most of us plugged in to the new world, will ‘remember’ incidents so much more readily.

Will those new ‘memories’ displace other brain functions, or enhance them? Will facilitated memories make our general ability to recollect greater or lower? Will concepts like nostalgia and melancholia be redefined, reframed or even replaced?

Will modern history be taught and seen differently? Will the very concept of ‘history’ be redefined?

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In reading David Reynolds’ op-ed in the New York Times, Rescuing the Real Uncle Tom, I couldn’t help thinking about the parallels with Palestinians struggling to end the occupation.

Reynolds points out that the book “Uncle Tom’s Cabin” was among the greatest contributors to the emancipation of African-Americans, and that the original Uncle Tom had tremendous moral courage and pride in his heritage.  Alas, Reynolds explains that partly due to the rendition of the book into a play where Uncle Tom was portrayed as a submissive “obedient old fool”, in the mid-20th century “younger, more radical activists” started demeaning civil rights leaders with the label as “Uncle Toms”:

It was this Uncle Tom, weakened both physically and spiritually, who became a synonym for a racial sellout by the mid-20th century. Black musicians, sports figures, even establishment civil rights leaders were all tarred with the “Uncle Tom” label, often by younger, more radical activists, as a way of demeaning them in the eyes of the African-American community.

Today, the vast majority of Palestinians would be willing to resolve the conflict with the recognition that they are destined to co-exist with Israelis and that thus there need to be two states for two people, and a significant number have the courage to stand up and lead the way towards a historic compromise, but a small minority of radical extremists with maximalist aims, exemplified most forcefully by groups like PACBI and the International Solidarity Movement, try to intimidate them and extinguish any hope for a compromise.  They call them “collaborators” and “normalizers” which in Palestinian society is a word that connotes betrayal and acceptance of the status quo. 

Nothing could be farther from the truth, though: Palestinian nationalists who support a Palestinian State but also recognize the right of Jews to have a homeland next to them in the State of Israel will ultimately be the ones that force the end of the occupation; these Palestinian nationalists who are willing to accept historic compromises have the moral authority to win.  In contrast, extremists whose maximalist demands in the form of a “Greater Palestine” or the euphemistic “One State Solution” deny the rights of their neighbors are in fact condemning their people and the region towards eternal war through absolutist campaigns that amount to what I call, more aptly I believe, the One State Delusion, or the One State Illusion. 

Reynolds points out that in the end, while extremists derided civil rights heroes as “Uncle Toms”, in fact, people like “Jackie Robinson, Louis Armstrong and Willie Mays, to name a few — are now seen as brave racial pioneers.  Indeed, during the civil rights era it was those who most closely resembled Uncle Tom — Stowe’s Tom, not the sheepish one of popular myth — who proved most effective in promoting progress.”

Reynolds adds that “Rosa Parks didn’t mind the Uncle Tom label, since she believed that great change could result from nonviolent moral protest. The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., though often called an Uncle Tom, also stuck to principled nonviolence.”

In the Palestinian case, too, the ultimate leaders that free the Palestinian people from the occupation – and free the Israelis from being occupiers – will be those who use non-violence and recognition of the humanity and human rights of both sides – to reclaim the agenda and achieve a two-state solution.

I should close by saying that a lot of these parallels can also be referenced in the case of Israelis.  Israeli progressives are often also derided as traitors who harm the cause of Zionism. But the true harm to Zionism comes from the extremist Israelis who are holding on to a Greater Israel vision that would prove devastatingly painful to the legitimacy of Israel as a Jewish Democratic State.

Only when Israelis and Palestinians understand that neither side will have peace, security and freedom if the other one doesn’t have the same will they both fulfill their maximum aspirations.

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An interesting set of studies suggest that as we grow older, we forget things because our brains don’t have the ability to remember prior incidents as well and they associate similar but non-identical experiences as having been identical (as seen here). But another possibility was ignored – that part of the problem is connected to the challenge we all face as human beings that as we get older we become less critical in our thinking and we accept connections and assumptions without questioning them. So instead of this being necessarily a reflection of our dying brain cells and neurotransmitters, it could be a result of socialization of our inputs into prejudicial assumptions that no longer question matters.

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by Adeena Schlussel

Daniel recently received the honor of delivering the commencement speech at Trinity University.

Check out his funny and insightful and advice for the graduating students in the text below!

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Susan Colin Marks is one of those rare human beings whose presence in ANY context invariably enriches the experience of ALL involved.  Stunned at seeing how she always managed to have a positive attitude, even vis a vis people that others would find unpalatable to interact with, I asked her how she handled situations where an ordinary mortal would consider a counterpart to be annoying, self-righteous, or even unjust and inhumane.  She shared that her secret is to build a reservoir of compassion, and that whenever I found myself judging others for being too self-centered, or unjust to others, I would need to reach into that reservoir and try to understand that they may be behaving that way out of insecurity, or other limitations in the human spirit that probably made them who they are, and reduced their happiness.  I should feel for them.  At the beginning I semi-dismissed this as New Age California talk. But I tried it when I felt negative reactions towards others and it worked marvels. 

Now, living life the way Susan does is not easy. It will take a ton of work to get even remotely close, and to even hope this mindset becomes instinctual. But to the extent you can incorporate this thinking tool into your internal kit, it definitely can make you happier and more effective. 

I do still wonder if injustice should always merit compassion.  Is an outright lie or evil behavior worthy of it? Should your compassion help you reach out to those people? Or should you channel that indignation to energize your work and fight that injustice? Since I was a kid, and living in the shadow and the memories of the Holocaust that my Dad went through, I find that when I notice someone be unfair to another, it inspires my action to help.  But also I have found that it repeatedly angers me and saddens me, sometimes to the point of being emotionally draining beyond belief.  Do you accept those feelings and welcome them as a sign of your moral compass? Or are they a reflection of imperfection and judgmentality? 

My assumption is that, sadly, there are at least some people who are so devoid of a human soul that they may not merit “compassion” as it will delude us into thinking that they can be negotiated with and they can be very dangerous to the world.  People like Hitler or Ahmadinejad.  They need to be contained, confronted, and opposed with all moral fiber and all necessary efforts.  I don’t personally subscribe to pacifism because my Dad would not have been alive if the Nazis had not been fought.  Sadly, the use of force in some cases is tragically unavoidable. 

But those people are probably an exceptional rarity.  Most human beings will go their entire lives without crossing paths with people that truly do not merit compassion.  In the overwhelming majority of cases, compassion towards people you don’t like or appreciate can probably make you a more effective leader, and a happier and more positive person.

And I assume Susan would probably find compassion for all, even for those I dismiss as beyond the pale.  What is your answer?

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Quote of the Week

Published under Favorite Quotes, Introspection Jan 13, 2011

This quote was shared at the Trinity Reunion by David Schlosser:

The farther backward you can look, the farther forward you are likely to see

                                                             – Winston Churchill

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Quote of the Week

Published under Favorite Quotes, Introspection Dec 22, 2010

A dream you dream alone is only a dream. A dream you dream together is a reality.

- John Lennon

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by Adeena Schlussel

Confirming KIND’s motto that “it’s usually the nuts that change the world”, Daniel was selected as Entrepreneur of the Year by Entrepreneur Magazine!  We are so proud.  Here is a link to the story.  And here is a video.

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